i think it was during the pendulum wars when adam was still perfecting the hammer of dawn, i think he new queen myarh for a while, and sept myarh looks half human and loucst i think that a grub made love to a human and when the cog found out they hunted the gal that had the baby and killed her for beytrail and while the grub was running out with the half breed, adam feinix when he was still with the colelition and fighing on the front lines stop him and aimed his lancer at the gurds center mass but adam saw the fear in the grubs eyes and that he had something in his hands, he pulled the trigger on the grub and and the grud dropped curled in a ball, then adam moved the body from the strange object and realized it was a baby, as he stood up and pointed his lancer between the half breed babys eyes he felt pitty on it. the rest of his squad can racing out toward him and adam hide the baby, when the search was over adam returned for the baby and in the shades snuk down under ground and found a what looked like a barracks, he woke a grub up and had his snud nose pointed at his head and handed him the baby and told him her name is myarh so adam lowered his pistol and offered his hand to the grub and they shook on it to be a secert. after that expernce adam resignedfrom the front lines and became the scientist he is now. he also took some visits to myarh as she was growing up and relized the problem of the lambit so he thought he could make a solution for the problem but didnt have time, think he tried to get people to understand the grubs didnt want to fight but chairman prescott thought differntly and saw it as a world conflict so the war started. and sept adam was a scientist he was sorta forced to create these weapons so called by myarh as wmds (weapons of mass distruction), so there friendship you could say broke because the new weapon aree such as the hammer stoped e-holes and forces from coming up. thats my theory that i think thats how they meet.